The Twelve Days of Christmas: Silver Bells Where They Belong

I’ve written several posts about my grandfather’s clock, which my parents kept for many years and which I now have in my home. I forgot to wind the clock before I went on a weekend trip this summer, and it ground to a halt while I was away. The chimes stopped on a different hour […]

Breaking Ground: On Building New Homes and Novels

I wrote in an earlier post that my husband and I are building a new home, after thirty-four years in our current house. The builder broke ground on the new house at the end of November! Now there will be something to see after months of planning. Building a house seems to me to be […]

Napoleon Exhibit at the Nelson-Adkins Museum: Propaganda at Its Best

Last month my husband and I spent an hour or so at the Nelson-Adkins Museum in Kansas City viewing the special exhibit entitled “Napoleon: Power and Splendor.” The exhibit was a little unusual for an art museum, I thought, but very effective. Most of the artworks on display were not shown because they were great […]

A Possible Family Heirloom: The Advent Calendar My Mother Made

On that trip that my mother made to our home in late November or early December 1984, she brought my son a gift she had made herself—an Advent calendar in the shape of a wreath. For those who don’t know, an Advent calendar helps children count the days until Christmas to build their anticipation (as […]

Where Did the Emigrants Sleep as They Traveled the Oregon Trail?

I’ve been asked where the emigrants in wagon trains slept as they traveled the Oregon Trail. In old Western movies, families are often depicted as sleeping in their wagons, and single men as pillowed on their saddles around a campfire. In reality, where did they sleep? Many sleeping arrangements were used. Some pioneers did sleep […]

Tenth Anniversary Celebration in the Virgin Islands

Today, November 26, 2018, is our 41st wedding anniversary. I’ve been on a “forty years ago” kick recently, and so I started wondering about our first wedding anniversary. Unfortunately, I have no memory of the day nor of any celebration of our first year of marriage. November 26, 1978, was a Sunday—the Sunday of Thanksgiving […]

My First “Adult” Thanksgiving

Today, November 21, 2018, is Stuffing Day. So it is appropriate to write about Thanksgiving dinners. Forty years ago, on Thanksgiving Day 1978, my husband and I had the first Thanksgiving meal in which we had a part in the planning and preparation. I think we brought a couple of bottles of wine to the […]

Forty Years Ago: Interviewing in Kansas City

In November 1978, my husband and I spent Monday through Wednesday of Thanksgiving week interviewing for attorney positions in Kansas City. We were third-year law students, and we had decided to settle in either Kansas City or San Diego. Why those two cities? My husband was from Missouri, and we both liked San Diego. I […]

On Stop Signs and Safety in 1969

I’ve written before about my youngest brother learning his alphabet—how we sent him on reconnoitering missions around the card table to find where the Airplane letters were. That was the summer of 1969, shortly before he turned two. By the time little brother’s second birthday rolled around in November 1969, he was beginning to put […]

Confession: I Let My Mother Potty-Train My Son

I mentioned in a post several years ago that my mother had potty-trained my son while I took a business trip. It was in November or December 1984, but I always associate the event with Thanksgiving. As I recall, this is how it came to be: We had moved into our new home in October […]